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Bereavement

Bereavement is the period of grief and mourning after a death. When you grieve, it's part of the normal process of reacting to a loss. You may experience grief as a mental, physical, social or emotional reaction. Mental reactions can include anger, guilt, anxiety, sadness and despair. Physical reactions can include sleeping problems, changes in appetite, physical problems or illness.

How long bereavement lasts can depend on how close you were to the person who died, if the person's death was expected and other factors. Friends, family and faith may be sources of support. Grief counseling or grief therapy is also helpful to some people.

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Bereavement Benefit on Wikipedia

'''Bereavement benefit''' replaced Widows benefit in the United Kingdom in April 2001.It is a social security benefit that is designed to support people who have recently lost their spouse, and need some financial support to help them get back on their feet. The qualifying conditions are as follows: It is required that the deceased and the claimant be married at the time of death. Bereavement benefit consists of 2 parts, firstly: 1. '''Bereavement payment''' of £2000 which is a one off tax free lump sum payable if the deceased spouse has paid 25 National Insurance contributions Secondly the succeeding benefit, of which there is 3 main types: 1. '''Bereavement allowance''', which is payable to widow(er)s aged 55 and over at the time of being widowed. This runs for 52 weeks or until the customer reaches Retirement age (whichever is sooner). The amount payable is dependant upon the deceased spouses National Insurance contributions. 2. '''Bereavement allowance age related''', which is payable to widow(er)s aged 45 to 54 at the time of being widowed. This runs for 52 weeks or until the customer reaches Retirement age (whichever is sooner). The amount payable is dependant upon an age related % of the deceased spouses National Insurance contributions. 3. '''Widowed parents allowance'''. This is payable to widow(er)s who have dependant children whom they are in receipt of child benefit for. The amount payable is dependant upon the deceased spouses NI conts plus any additional pension they may have eared. Widowed parents allowance is payable until the customer stops getting child benefit for their dependants. None of these succeeding benefits are payable over retirement pension age. However bereavement payment of £2000 may be payable if the deceased was not in receipt of a category A retirement pension.   [ Read More ]


External Resources

Eternal Bereavement - Official website. Contains pictures, member information, music, lyrics, tabs, fan art/poetry, contact information and a message board.

Skeptical Inquirer: John Edward: Hustling the Bereaved - An examination of the show. Explains John Edward's cold and hot reading techniques and examples of cheating.

Skeptical Inquirer: John Edward: Hustling the Bereaved - An examination of the star and "Crossing Over", explaining his cold and hot reading techniques, and examples of out-and-out cheating.

Landscapes Publishing - Offering support and resources to those who are bereaved, a feedback page for people to share their own stories, online bookstore.

Compassion Books - Grief Resources - Resources to help children and adults through serious illness, death, loss, grief and bereavement. Reviewed and selected by knowledgeable professionals.

Dreaming Kevin: The Path to Healing - Bereaved parent,Carla Blowey's intimate account of the healing power of dreams and after-death communications in reconciling the death of her child.

Good Grief Rituals - Book and resources for dealing with grief and bereavement.

If There's Anything I Can Do.... - A guide that provides advice on what to say, what to do and what to write for someone you care about during their time of bereavement.

Searching for My Estrella Maili - Rebuilding My Life After the Death of My Daughter. A book about bereavement, grief, and loss.

Inspirations: A Bereavement Counselling Book - By Derek Dobson, poet and bereavement counselor. Collection of supportive poems, proverbs and quotations.



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